Self-Criticism and Growth – What most of my friends have in common

This is apropos of a discussion I was having with a friend and colleague about taking criticism graciously.

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The Shell Game

I had occasion yesterday to confront a group of colleagues about bias in word and idiom choice (i.e. “Chinese fire drill”) in conversation at a meeting and had mixed results with the different individuals involved. Largely the response to a letter I wrote yesterday was both in public and in private positive. I did have [...]

Surrealism in Antiracism

Been doing my bit for king and country today, heroically (I think) staying out of a potential flamewar about racism on MetaFilter (technically, MetaTalk) all day.

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Writing about Race and Racism

I wanted to note here a couple of things about my own relationship to writing about race-oriented power disparities as well as share a portion of a comment I made in a locked LiveJournal community about race and racism.

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International Blog Against Racisim Week 2009

As may or may not be explicitly clear to anyone who reads this blog, I took a voluntary leave of absence from writing about power disparity issues (primarily racism) on this blog in the Spring of 2009, and that will remain until at least the Fall of 2009, if not later.

To support my pledge [...]

Racefail 2009 Meme

There is a meme going around toward the idea that we should not be silent about our feelings and reactions to Racefail 2009 and our lessons learned.

How do I put this?

I am no stranger to the idea that speaking out and getting as many opinions as possible is a good thing. When done [...]

A few things to say about cultural appropriation

Apparently we’re having that discussion again (this link is from 2007, probably around June). Cultural appropriation discussions are very fraught. Start here. Author’s response here, both with many other links available. (I should note that I am one of the author’s friends, but that I know she is strong enough to pick her own battles [...]

On the entitlement of safety and its relationship to docentry/tokenism, reverse racism and anti-racism

In which I shall attempt to explain how I think entitlement/privilege is related to docentry/tokenism, reverse racism and how I think you can use your entitlement/privilege for good.

Updated: To try to clarify a bit.

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IBARW 3 – My first flowchart!

Feel free to give feedback.

This one’s about whether you should write an angry response to being called a racist.

Idea totally ripped off from Gary Dauphin’s Should I use blackface in my blog? flowchart. I hope it meets with his approval.

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IBARW 3 – US – Directive 15, the One Drop Rule and you

I had cause recently to go (re-)read Directive 15 (because I had been speaking authoritatively about it and hadn’t reviewed it in quite some time – a couple of decades, probably). The last time (before this time) I thought I had reviewed it (or potentially related regulations with the IRS or some other governmental organization [...]